Honestly though, I don’t know that the show succeeded, and could that be the point? That we evolve? That it’s messy? How we’ll constantly explore, adapt, discard, and evolve. How even after adolescence we will continue searching for our truest selves. How they’ll use our visible selves to make assumptions and judgements. How people will always try to know and define us. How we spend our adolescence figuring out who we are, which makes it impossible for other people to truly know us. Every episode of this show makes me feel insane and I’m not sure of anything.” I think the show set out to be a treatise on the coming of age experience. When I finished the final episode of We Are Who We Are, I turned my head and said, “I feel insane.